tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6025966614018196157.post4120950039930220723..comments2023-08-11T07:11:02.538-07:00Comments on Stupid Broken Eggs: To Break or Not to BreakAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03257674420881990140noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6025966614018196157.post-57628293865727283772013-09-08T07:44:29.572-07:002013-09-08T07:44:29.572-07:00So glad to see you back Caroline hope your trip wa...So glad to see you back Caroline hope your trip was wonderful!! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03257674420881990140noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6025966614018196157.post-72381609190164263682013-09-08T07:44:09.493-07:002013-09-08T07:44:09.493-07:00Thanks Patti<3Thanks Patti<3Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03257674420881990140noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6025966614018196157.post-29477528938566893242013-09-07T10:24:27.523-07:002013-09-07T10:24:27.523-07:00Thinking about you Kasey. I LOVE this picture you ...Thinking about you Kasey. I LOVE this picture you posted - so true! His ways are so much higher than ours!Caroline @ In Due Timehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16261569299914107796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6025966614018196157.post-8595602878010098862013-09-06T20:26:14.803-07:002013-09-06T20:26:14.803-07:00Always thinking positive for you! <3Always thinking positive for you! <3Pattihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11186783147416444596noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6025966614018196157.post-73379023798576450392013-09-06T09:22:27.535-07:002013-09-06T09:22:27.535-07:00Thank you. I think thats what is more than anythin...Thank you. I think thats what is more than anything. Its so hard to schedule everything around work and to keep on living. I feel run down and sad today.. I hope peace finds me over the next few days as well. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03257674420881990140noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6025966614018196157.post-23740528920040430812013-09-06T09:14:03.099-07:002013-09-06T09:14:03.099-07:00Choosing when to take a break is so tough and emot...Choosing when to take a break is so tough and emotion-laden and different for each person. Though our circumstances are not the same, I can relate to so much of what you've got going on in terms of having to factor in the logistics and worrying about your age and all the rest of it. I do think there were a few times when I had to break the wheels just because of sheer (emotional and physical) exhaustion. It's not like you actually *ever* stop thinking about the ttc stuff, but for me it was about getting some mental space from worrying about what goes in my body, over-thinking every little twinge and the agony/anticipation of each two week wait...None of this crap is easy, but I am wishing you peace with whatever you decide is right for you.Sadiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14325203869605294768noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6025966614018196157.post-75147005776458678252013-09-06T09:04:34.432-07:002013-09-06T09:04:34.432-07:00You very right. I would love to do the run with my...You very right. I would love to do the run with my friends but I really am okay sitting that out. Its more so how I feel mentally and what my body needs. I think I am going to move forward as long as my body is ready to move forward- No cysts or anything and such. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03257674420881990140noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6025966614018196157.post-13587354889828810372013-09-06T09:02:42.863-07:002013-09-06T09:02:42.863-07:00Thanks Emily me too. You raise a good point I have...Thanks Emily me too. You raise a good point I have no idea what the new year will bring and I should use that insurance for all its worth since it really is so amazing. I do have some more time to think about it. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03257674420881990140noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6025966614018196157.post-7686832446579676892013-09-06T08:59:52.096-07:002013-09-06T08:59:52.096-07:00Thanks Mel thats great advice. I just feel like it...Thanks Mel thats great advice. I just feel like its mentally important to take a break every now and then, but I think Im good to go for the next cycle now and maybe my body will answer my questions for me. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03257674420881990140noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6025966614018196157.post-5321414594754166252013-09-06T08:55:48.193-07:002013-09-06T08:55:48.193-07:00I am hoping that its just too early for you. I'...I am hoping that its just too early for you. I've tested negative before on a HPT & same day positive on a FRER. <br /><br />You ultimately have to do what's right for you. Only you can choose, but having fertility coverage could make things easier for you in the long run. I think I would use the coverage I have now & sign up for a run after you get preggo & have the kid. Heidihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13213799827326314663noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6025966614018196157.post-62335067288236438052013-09-06T08:30:56.034-07:002013-09-06T08:30:56.034-07:00Thanks Lisa~ I was negative again today.. thanks f...Thanks Lisa~ I was negative again today.. thanks for the hugs only time will tell! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03257674420881990140noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6025966614018196157.post-60017580416976624252013-09-06T08:11:20.135-07:002013-09-06T08:11:20.135-07:00Hoping you get a nice surprise and won't need ...Hoping you get a nice surprise and won't need to even do another cycle. If you do though, go with what feels right for you and your hubby both. I will say, as someone with zero fertility coverage, that if someone told me I was magically granted even just three months of coverage, I would choose that over a run any day. It's definitely not fun paying for this stuff OOP. You've gotta do what's right for you though! I think so many of us struggle with what moves to make but your heart will tell you LOUD AND CLEAR if it's time for a break. And if it does, listen to it. Sounds like you have a couple days to sleep on it, pray on it, and discuss with hubby. :)Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07415140299306373048noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6025966614018196157.post-82729925706064491552013-09-06T05:10:27.771-07:002013-09-06T05:10:27.771-07:00I think when continuing to try negatively impacts ...I think when continuing to try negatively impacts your life MORE than being infertile does (at least for that moment in time), you take the break. Because getting everything you ever wanted while you're miserable doesn't help. That's my two cents.<br /><br />I so sorry it was a negative.Lollipop Goldsteinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01020874415819057995noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6025966614018196157.post-79422778040495719062013-09-06T04:47:12.434-07:002013-09-06T04:47:12.434-07:00I'm so sorry! I am still going to stay hopeful...I'm so sorry! I am still going to stay hopeful for you! Sending lots of love and hugs your way!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6025966614018196157.post-58878668186910614182013-09-05T13:42:32.294-07:002013-09-05T13:42:32.294-07:00I know what your feeling Kristine. Thinking of you...I know what your feeling Kristine. Thinking of you too. I think I will be able to make a choice on the matter once they do my beta or my period comes. I really am hoping my period just shows up without another beta draw and getting another phone call to be told its negative. I hate that. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03257674420881990140noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6025966614018196157.post-5043479311084495072013-09-05T13:41:24.554-07:002013-09-05T13:41:24.554-07:00I hope its false too. I don't think Im going ...I hope its false too. I don't think Im going to break yet either. The deductible is a very good point. Plus Im pretty sure after two more cycles they will want to change my protocol again and make me break anyway. I hope to not get there, but I think I will continue moving forward with the next cycle. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03257674420881990140noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6025966614018196157.post-90251001984191154852013-09-05T09:46:40.473-07:002013-09-05T09:46:40.473-07:00Oh Kasey :( I'm so sorry. I know how much seei...Oh Kasey :( I'm so sorry. I know how much seeing that BFN hurts! I'm in the same place with not knowing when to take a break. I wanted to after this past cycle, then as it got closer to beta day, I decided that I'd do one more medicated cycle then take a couple month break. I think I need to do it more for my mental health then anything else, but I also wonder what if I'm missing the month that would be my perfect month. It's so hard to know what to do! I'm sure it's even harder for you since you aren't sure about your future insurance. I'll be praying that you can come to the decision that gives you the most peace, and that you have strength to keep going if that's what you decide to do. Hang in there Kasey! Thinking of you!Kristinenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6025966614018196157.post-49316701529303601542013-09-05T09:45:22.797-07:002013-09-05T09:45:22.797-07:00I hope it's false, but if it's not, I woul...I hope it's false, but if it's not, I wouldn't take a break. I was planning on putting everything off to get the vaccine until they said I didn't need it, and the idea of wasting my insurance (my deductible restarts in January) and waiting was hard, but acceptable if it meant a healthier pregnancy. But I am *so relieved* that now I don't have to wait. If you need a break, that's one thing, but it sounds like you just feel like you should? I don't know. It's up to you, obviously, but I believe in doing everything possible, and then letting go and believing. So me? I wouldn't wait. But whatever you choose I'm sure will be right for you, and they say: Everything works out in the end. If it's not alright, it's not the end :)Adihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02489423723982017482noreply@blogger.com